Liquor Talk

Ep 372: Education and Adult Vibes (Season 10 Premiere)

Season 10 of Liquor Talk is here. Pour up your favorite drink and enjoy the journey. Season 10 kicks off with some serious adult vibes so hide the kids for this grown folks conversation. On this episode of Liquor Talk, Vic welcomes back returning guest Headusa Divine for a very adult themed conversation to kick off the 10th season of the Liquor Talk Podcast. Topics discussed were the importance of education in the adult industry and more. They explore the transition from performer to educator, the structure and curriculum of Adult Cam University, and the significance of skill development for webcam performers. Headusa emphasizes the need for a formalized education system in the adult industry, especially in the wake of the COVID-19 pandemic, which saw an influx of new performers without proper training. The conversation also touches on safety, security, and navigating the various adult cam platforms. In this episode, Headusa Divine discusses the creation and vision behind Adult Cam University (ACU), emphasizing the importance of structured education for performers in the adult industry. She shares her personal journey of building the platform, the sacrifices made, and the gaps identified in performer education. The conversation touches on the stigmas surrounding adult entertainment, the necessity of self-connection for sexual satisfaction, and the importance of open communication about sexuality. Headusa also outlines the target audience for ACU, the cost structure, and the potential for future expansion within the industry. Pour up some whiskey for this episode and stay tuned for more great episodes.

Ep 371: Building Community Through Media (Season 9 Finale)

We have reached the end of season 9. Thank you for pouring up and turning into this season of the Liquor Talk Podcast. We gotta end it with a bang for one last round. This is the last call for season 9. On this episode of Liquor Talk Vic welcomes back guest Leo Ra'Chel host of the Phat Girl Chronicles Podcast. The conversation discusses the evolution of the Phat Girl Chronicles, the importance of community building through media, and the significance of mental health awareness. They explore the complexities of loneliness, healthy communication in relationships, and the challenges faced by black businesses. The conversation emphasizes unity within the black community and the need for understanding and grace in interpersonal relationships. Thank you to all of the guests who joined in person or virtually to make these episodes happen. We will be back Spring 2026.

Ep 370: How To Unlock Intimacy

This is the last episode before the season 9 finale. Big thank you to everyone who checked out the three Podmatch Sunday episodes before or after the Super Bowl. Intimacy is very important for relationships to survive. Gotta get your notepad and liquor ready for this one. On this episode of Liquor Talk Vic welcomes Intimacy coach Xanet Pailet for an very eye opening conversation. The conversation explores Xanet's journey from being a healthcare attorney to a sex coach, discussing the challenges of intimacy in relationships, the impact of trauma, and the importance of communication. Coach Xanet shares insights on how to rediscover pleasure, when to seek help, and the common themes she sees in couples therapy. The conversation emphasizes the significance of emotional safety and offers practical advice for both singles and couples looking to improve their intimate lives. Thanks for the support.

Ep 369: The Art of Matchmaking

We know its Super Bowl Sunday but we still gotta give the people what they need. This is the second of three episodes coming out today for the last Podmatch Sunday of season 9. Matchmaking is really an art when you thinks about it. Not everyone can do it. On this episode of Liquor Talk Vic welcomes welcomes Brylye Collins, a certified relationship coach and matchmaker, to discuss the complexities of modern dating. Brylye shares her insights on the value of matchmaking, the importance of intentional dating, and how to recognize emotional availability. They explore the challenges of dating with children, the significance of processing emotions after breakups, and the impact of materialism in relationships. Brylyye emphasizes the need for self-awareness and understanding one's non-negotiables in dating, while also addressing the societal pressures surrounding holidays like Valentine's Day. The conversation concludes with Brylye encouraging listeners to take actionable steps towards meaningful connections and consider hiring a dating coach for personalized support.

Ep 368: The Dynamics of Masculine and Feminine Energy

We know its Super Bowl Sunday but we gotta give the people an episode anyways. This is a podmatch Sunday episode. The world would be a better place if everyone understood masculine and feminine energy. On this episode of the Liquor Talk Podcast Vic welcomes dating coach Lauren Salaun to explore the complexities of dating, relationships, and the dynamics between masculine and feminine energies. They discuss the importance of emotional intelligence, the struggles women face in dating, and how men can better understand and support their partners. The conversation also touches on Valentine's Day expectations, the significance of compatibility over chemistry, and the hormonal influences that affect relationships. Lauren shares her journey as a dating coach and offers insights on how women can embrace their femininity while navigating the dating landscape. Thanks for all of the support. 

Ep 367: The Importance of Black Love

Happy Black History month everyone. Black love is so important. Ignore social media and other media platforms that put us black people against one another. We need each other no matter what. Remember that this month. On this episode of the Liquor Talk Podcast Vic welcomes back Thai The Matchmaker for another drink and conversation dealing with the complexities of matchmaking, dating expectations, and the importance of understanding one's own needs in relationships. They discuss the challenges faced by matchmakers, the hypocrisy in dating standards, and the significance of being equally yoked. The conversation also touches on romantic gestures, the dangers of love bombing, and the cultural importance of matchmaking within the Black community, especially during Black History Month. In this engaging conversation other topics covered were the significance of black love and community, the collaborative nature of matchmaking, and the lessons learned in the field. They explore the challenges faced by matchmakers, particularly in understanding men's guardedness in relationships and the importance of healing from past heartbreaks. The discussion also emphasizes self-development, identifying worthy partners, and the value of asking tough questions in dating. As Valentine's Day approaches, they highlight the need to celebrate love in all its forms, encouraging listeners to show love to those around them.

Ep 366: Going From Friend Zone to Relationship

Happy Black History Month. Anything is possible ladies and gentlemen. There have been plenty of people who have gone from being friends with someone to being in a happy relationship with that person who was a friends. For the people who say dating sucks consider taking a chance on someone who is in the friend zone if you want a valentine this month. On this Podmatch Sunday edition of Liquor Talk Vic welcomes guest Shelly, a dating coach from California. This conversations delves into the complexities of modern dating. Shelly shares her journey from nursing to becoming a dating coach, emphasizing her mission to help men stop chasing women and start attracting the right partners. She discusses the fundamental differences in how men and women approach dating, highlighting misconceptions that often lead to misunderstandings. The conversation touches on the impact of social media on dating culture, the importance of authenticity, and the need for men to build confidence and present themselves genuinely in their dating lives. The conversation delves into practical advice for dating, including how to approach first dates, the significance of being present, and the importance of genuine communication. Overall, the episode is a rich resource for anyone looking to navigate the complexities of modern dating with a fresh perspective.

Ep 365: Overcoming Major Fears as Men

This is the first Men's Round conversation of 2026. There are things in life that all men fear no matter how old they are. These fears can be put in check. On this episode of Liquor Talk Vic welcomes the fellas Juggy and Godfrey for the first men's only conversation of the new year. This conversation begins with a lively discussion about their personal resolutions and reflections on the past year. The fellas share their thoughts on the current state of sports, particularly focusing on the NFL and college football, as they analyze the performance of their favorite teams and the implications of coaching changes. They also touch on broader societal issues, including the importance of community and integrity in the face of celebrity culture and consumerism. The conversation flows seamlessly from personal anecdotes to sports commentary, creating an engaging atmosphere for listeners. In this episode of the Liquor Talk Podcast, the hosts delve into the complexities of modern relationships and the importance of making informed choices when selecting partners. They emphasize that many individuals often choose partners based on convenience rather than compatibility, leading to dissatisfaction in relationships. The discussion transitions into the significance of marriage, highlighting the necessity of communication, counseling, and surrounding oneself with positive role models who have successfully navigated long-term commitments. The hosts stress that marriage is not just a milestone but a lifelong journey that requires effort, understanding, and selflessness from both partners.The conversation then shifts to the fears faced by Black men, including the fear of being irrelevant, broke, and unintelligent. The hosts discuss how societal pressures and systemic issues contribute to these fears, urging listeners to embrace education and community support. They advocate for breaking the cycle of celebrating incarceration and instead focus on uplifting one another through mentorship and shared experiences. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to take charge of their lives, seek knowledge, and foster a sense of community to combat these fears and challenges. In this episode of the Liquor Talk Podcast, the hosts delve into the complexities of intelligence, humility, and the fear of rejection. They emphasize the importance of being coachable and the value of listening over speaking, suggesting that sometimes playing the fool can reveal more about others. The conversation shifts to the societal perceptions of intelligence, particularly in professional settings, where individuals often face biases that undermine their capabilities. The hosts share personal anecdotes and broader societal observations, highlighting the need for self-awareness and the courage to ask for help. As the discussion progresses, the focus turns to the fear of appearing weak and the importance of establishing boundaries in relationships. The hosts argue that true strength lies in knowing when to assert oneself and when to remain silent. They also tackle the fear of rejection, encouraging listeners to embrace it as a part of life and to recognize that every 'no' can lead to a 'yes.' The episode wraps up with a call to action for listeners to engage in their communities and to be proactive in their personal and professional lives, reinforcing the idea that overcoming fears is essential for growth and success.

Ep 364: Finding Love After Turning 60

Here is another Podmatch Sunday episode so pour up some wine on this Sunday. Its never too late to find the love of your life and create great memories with that person. Thank you to our friends at Podmatch for providing us with this guest. On this episode of Liquor Talk Vic welcomes Coach Deb, a dating coach specializing in helping individuals in their 60s navigate the complexities of online dating. Deb shares her personal journey, which began after her second marriage ended, leading her to explore online dating during the COVID lockdown. She emphasizes the importance of self-love and confidence, particularly for seniors who may feel out of touch with the dating scene. Deb's insights are both practical and empowering, encouraging listeners to embrace online dating with a fearless attitude and to be mindful of their own needs and desires.Throughout the discussion, Deb provides valuable tips on how to avoid common pitfalls in online dating, such as falling for scammers and catfishers. She stresses the importance of being honest about one's intentions and the necessity of self-discovery before diving into the dating pool. The conversation also touches on the significance of compatibility, especially regarding values and lifestyle, and how to maintain a healthy relationship once a connection is made. Deb's approach is refreshing, as she combines humor with practical advice, making the daunting world of dating feel more accessible for seniors.

Ep 363: Navigating Taxes and Entrepreneurship

At the start of every year people have to take care of their business and personal taxes. Some people get a huge refund and some gotta pay more to greedy Uncle Sam. Also at the start of the year people express their ambitions to start their own business and very few actually executes the plan to start their own business. Take a shot of rum for this episode if any of these things apply to you listening at home. On this episode of Liquor Talk Vic welcomes Taylor Lokey, who shares her journey from the Bay Area to Atlanta and her diverse business ventures. Taylor discusses her entrepreneurial journey, which began after graduating from Sac State in 2020, leading her to open a hair shop and later expand into the car rental and tax preparation industries. She emphasizes the importance of financial literacy, particularly in the realm of taxes, and aims to educate her community about the often misunderstood and stressful aspects of tax filing. Taylor also highlights the significance of good bookkeeping and the common misconceptions surrounding tax refunds and deductions, especially for entrepreneurs. The conversation shifts to the challenges of financial transparency in relationships and the necessity of having a partner who shares a similar entrepreneurial mindset. Please follow and support both businesses.